Wednesday, September 30, 2015

The Bible, Homosexuality, and a Christian Response – Part 7

Raphael, Paul in Athens, 1515
The Golden Rule and Common Ground

In discussing the Christian response to homosexuality, these articles have mostly been apologetic in nature. That is, I have been defending the biblical position against the position of liberal and revisionist theologians. I haven’t really talked much about what a Christian’s attitude should be when discussing the issue of homosexuality. I have mentioned the Golden Rule and the Greatest Commandment and I will reiterate those in this article. In the next few articles, I’m going to dig deeper into the ideas contained in the Golden Rule and the Greatest Commandment in light of what our attitudes should be when dealing with homosexuals.

As you will see, these ideas should be applied in our interactions with everyone. I’m not perfect. I get a little sarcastic and I get frustrated and I get angry. But our goal should be to apply the teachings of Christ to every area of our life.

Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets.
– Matthew 7:12

The Golden Rule is memorized by church kids in Sunday school, it is taught by our parents. In fact, the Golden Rule appears in some form in pretty much every religion in the world.

Buddhism
Hurt not others in ways that you yourself would find hurtful.
– Udana-Varga 5,1

Islam
… and let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah should forgive you? And Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.
– Qur’an – Surah 24:22

Judaism
… thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself…
– Leviticus 19:18

Wicca
An it harm none, do what ye will.
– Wiccan Rede

It has been paraphrased: “Treat people the way you want to be treated.” Our parents taught us that to make friends, “You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar.” A modern word is empathy. To the wise of all nations and religions, being nice to people just makes sense.

I’m not an ecumenical. Not by a long shot. I do not believe that all religions are essentially the same, I don’t believe that we are all going to the same place, nor do I believe that if you are sincere in your faith, everything will turn out alright in the end.

Areopagus (Mars Hill)
viewed from the Acropolis in Athens, Greece
I believe in the exclusivity of Christ and Christianity. That doesn’t mean that I can’t recognize similarities in various religious teachings and scriptures. Recognizing the similarities helps me to find common ground with people of other religions and that helps open the door to evangelism.

The apostle Paul did the very same thing when he preached. In Acts 17, we read of Paul witnessing to Greeks in Athens at a temple on Ares’ Rock (Greek Areopagus), more commonly known by the Roman title, Mars Hill which is just northwest of the Acropolis in Athens, Greece.

22 So Paul, standing in the midst of the Areopagus, said: “Men of Athens, I perceive that in every way you are very religious. 23 For as I passed along and observed the objects of your worship, I found also an altar with this inscription, ‘To the unknown god.’ What therefore you worship as unknown, this I proclaim to you. 24 The God who made the world and everything in it, being Lord of heaven and earth, does not live in temples made by man, 25 nor is he served by human hands, as though he needed anything, since he himself gives to all mankind life and breath and everything. 26 And he made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined allotted periods and the boundaries of their dwelling place, 27 that they should seek God, and perhaps feel their way toward him and find him. Yet he is actually not far from each one of us, 28 for

“‘In him we live and move and have our being’;

as even some of your own poets have said,

“‘For we are indeed his offspring.’

29 Being then God's offspring, we ought not to think that the divine being is like gold or silver or stone, an image formed by the art and imagination of man. 30 The times of ignorance God overlooked, but now he commands all people everywhere to repent, 31 because he has fixed a day on which he will judge the world in righteousness by a man whom he has appointed; and of this he has given assurance to all by raising him from the dead.”
– Acts 17:22-31 (ESV)

Paul, rather than completely avoiding or shunning people of other religions, walked right into their midst. Rather than insulting them, he actually finds common ground with them by quoting their own philosophers and poets.

The men Paul was speaking to were probably Epicureans and Stoics. His very first quote is of a Roman Stoic philosopher, Lucius Annaeus Seneca “God… does not live in temples made by man.” Verses 25 through 27 are paraphrases of Seneca, verse 28 contains another direct quote of Seneca and the second quote is from the Phaenomena of Aratus, and then in verse 29, Paul paraphrases Seneca again.

Paul was trying to convince the Greeks that their worship of the “unknown God” was tantamount to idolatry. But rather than building his case on the Jewish or the relatively recent Christian scriptures, Paul built his whole case against idolatry from their very own religious and philosophical texts.

When talking with anyone, finding common ground is very important. It may not be that you are interested in the same things, but rather that you show that you take an interest in other people.

In sales, many people are taught F.O.R.M. to break the ice and build rapport. F.O.R.M. stands for Family, Occupation, Recreation (what do you like to do for fun?), and Mutual acquaintances. It’s not just for sales, it can be used in any conversation. Even if you are an introvert, you can have a pretty good conversation and get to know people based on these four things.

When you take an interest in people, you will find that common ground. When people see that you are interested in them, it humanizes you, makes you more approachable, and easier to talk to. It shows you actually care. It will be easier for you to explain your position to others and make it more likely that your position will be heard in spite of the possibility they may disagree with you.

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